I was thrilled when one of my favorite authors, Becky Wade, agreed to write a post for Ohio Homeschool. I love her books and just finished her newest book True to You! Today she is sharing how her mom influenced her love of reading in honor of Mother's Day. Please give a warm welcome to Becky Wade.
7 Ways to Raise Kids Who Love Books by Becky Wade
Abraham Lincoln once said, "All that I am, or hope
to be, I owe to my angel mother."
If you were fortunate enough to have been raised by a wonderful mother,
as I was, then you know how true that statement is! It would be impossible to define or explain
all the ways that my own "angel mother" influenced me, so I've
decided to pinpoint just one in this post.
My mom instilled
a love of reading in me.
As a
girl, I was an avid reader. Later, after
I married, my deep enjoyment of reading led me to become an author.
So how
did my mom do it? How did she raise all
three of her daughters to love books? Here's
how:
1. Before
I could read, she read aloud to me.
Daily, she took the time to read.
And not just board books or picture books. She began reading chapter books to me when I
was small. Those detailed stories filled
my fledgling imagination with adventure, times long past, love, danger, honor. I determined at a very, very young age that
books were the best form of entertainment.
2. Even
after I could read, she continued to read to me at bedtime. Reading was a treat, a reward, a quiet time
just for the two of us. "I'm going to have to take away a chapter at
bedtime," may have been a punishment in our house but, "Go read for
20 minutes!" never was.
3. She
took me to the library. At every
other stop on our list of errands (the grocery store, the department store, the
post office) she'd say no to the million things I asked for. But at the library, her answer was always an
unqualified, "Yes." I'd leave
with a stack of books and a big grin.
4. I had
plenty of unscheduled, electronics-free time in my day. Hours of it.
If I told mom I was bored, she'd supply a few ideas. "You can make paper dolls." "Go knock on Allison's door and ask if
she's free to play." "Read." Then she'd go about her business and let me
figure out my own solutions. I read. A lot.
5. My travel accessory was a book. Whenever we took a road trip or a plane trip,
my book was my entertainment device. After
all, books are portable, inexpensive, difficult to break, and don't need to be
charged.
6. She
shared her books with me. Starting
in my late middle school years, when my reading tastes caught up with my mom's,
she began passing the books she'd finished to me. To this day, we talk about books and authors! When I visit her house, I take a few of her
recommendations home with me. And vise
versa when she visits me.
7. She
modeled reading for pleasure. My mom
has always read for her own
enjoyment. Stop by her house on any
ordinary week night and you'll find my dad watching sports. You'll find my mom sitting on the end of the
sofa near the lamp, reading. It's easy
for us moms to let our busy schedules squeeze our hobbies out of our
lives. But my mom protected her reading
time. And her daughters are the better
for it.
Did your mom
instill a love of reading in you? Happy
Mother's Day, moms!
True to You |
Thank you Becky Wade for stopping by! Becky has a contest for her new book. You may enter here.
Becky’s a California native who attended Baylor University, met and
married a Texan, and settled in Dallas. She published historical
romances for the general market before putting her career on hold for
several years to care for her three children. When God called her back
to writing, Becky knew He meant for her to turn her attention to
Christian fiction. She loves writing funny, modern, and inspirational
contemporary romance! She’s the Carol Award, INSPY Award, and
Inspirational Reader’s Choice Award winning author of My Stubborn Heart,
the Porter Family series, and the Bradford Sisters Romance series.
Connect with Becky through her web site and social media. www.beckywade.com
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Thank you Becky for stopping by. My mother would read to me and she also loves to read. We give each other books to this day! Becky B.
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome, Becky! It's wonderful to share a love of reading with your mom. :)
ReplyDeleteYes! My mom definitely encouraged reading in my childhood and I love her for it. In our downtime as kids, whenever we were bored, the first words out of my mom's mouth were, "Read a book." Going to the library was one of favorite things as a kid...and still is now.
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