You could have done less . . .

 

As we reflect on the  2024- 2025 school year and get ready for the 2025-2026 year, it is good to rejoice in what we have accomplished.  This is post from earlier on the blog, but I thought it might be nice to read again.  

If there is one thing I hear over and over again from families is "I really could have done more this year."  Sometimes they say this to me before they send in their portfolio, after I complement them on all they have accomplished, or just when they see me out at the Greenhills library.

I have started responding, "Well you know, you could have done less."  Usually that gets me a sort of head tilting confused look. I then say, "Really, you could have done less.  You could have read less books to your kids,  you could have completed fewer math pages, you could have participated in not as many field trips, or had fewer learning conversations."  I tell families, you did have a lot of great learning experiences with your students this year, and you worked hard.

I often joke that I have to have very high self-esteem to look at so many portfolios each year.  I am always fascinated at all families accomplish, and the progress their students make.  I see families who take amazing educational trips to places I have never heard of, utilize community resources in unique ways, read great literature, integrate learning into their lives in so many novel ways, find apps and web sites that are incredible, and find resources I had no idea existed.

What I have learned through the years is that everyone is good at something, but probably not good at everything. You are good at something with your students.  There is something that you can do that someone around you admires you for and wonders how you do it. Are there things you could improve on. . well of course. . we all could. We are all people on a homeschooling journey who are constantly trying to improve, and that is fabulous.  No one wants to be stagnant.  It is good to set realistic goals to improve your home education, but still rejoice in what you have accomplished.

I think it is important to remember what you are good at and what you bring to your homeschooling world.  Celebrate your student's accomplishments, celebrate your accomplishments and maybe even ask your students what you do well.  I am willing to bet their answers will surprise you.

And  please remember as doubt creeps in. . You truly could have done less.   So celebrate what you did do!

~Becky

Our Friendly Farmhouse by Melissa Ferguson & her children and illustrated by Gretchen Ellen Powers.

Our Friendly Farmhouse written by Melissa Ferguson & her children and is illustrated by Gretchen Ellen Powers. It is beautifully illustrated children’s book telling the story of the Ferguson family’s move to the country, how they built their home and changed their lives.

This is a beautiful children’s books with water color pictures that go perfectly with the text. The sweet story is appropriate for children four to eight years old, and your older kids will be listening in because it is so engaging. The book includes photos of the Ferguson family farm and shares a day in the life of their family.

Our Friendly Farmhouse would be fantastic to read as family, for fun, in a farm unit, comparing and contrasting the different places people live, and as a springboard for talking about big events in your own family. I might read to kids and then create a book or story about your own family.

I highly recommend Our Friendly Farmhouse written by Melissa Ferguson & her children and illustrated by Gretchen Ellen. It will delight you! This will be a 2025 favorite for me.

I was given a copy and not required to write a positive review. 

Melissa Ferguson is the bestselling author of titles including Meet Me in the Margins, How to Plot a Payback, On the Way to Christmas, and The Perfect Rom-Com.

She lives in Tennessee with her husband and children in their growing farmhouse lifestyle and writes heartwarming romantic comedies that have been featured in such places as The Hollywood Reporter, Travel + Leisure, Woman’s World, and BuzzFeed. Join along her journey with over 800,000 other followers at @ourfriendlyfarmhouse.

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What to do with your Whirly Swirly Thoughts by Jennie Allen illustrated by Nadia Gunawan

 

What to do with your Whirly Swirly Thoughts by Jennie Allen illustrated by Nadia Gunawan is a delightful picture for ages 5-8.  The book walks you through all the emotions, thoughts, and feeling you have and what you can do with them.  The story talks about what to do if your thoughts get too big and start to take over, you have a choice on what thoughts stay in your head, and some concrete activities for kids such as being thankful or physical activities.  

I found this book so delightful.  What a wonderful way to talk to kids about their thoughts and start great conversations with them. I love the honesty and beauty of this book.  This would be perfect for elementary health, Sunday School, or to start conversations between parents and kids.  The pictures are stunning, engaging, and add to the beauty of the book.  

I highly recommend What to do with your Whirly Swirly Thoughts by Jennie Allen illustrated by Nadia Gunawan.  This will be one of my favorite picture books of 2025.  

Blurb: As a mother of four and bestselling author of Get Out of Your Head, Jennie Allen knows what it’s like to swirl in a spiral of thoughts, but she also knows we don’t have to stay stuck in toxic thinking patterns—and she wants to pass on this liberating truth to the next generation.

A great gift for teachers, caregivers, or back-to-school celebrations, What to Do with Your Whirly, Swirly Thoughts is a wonderful tool to teach your children thatGod created them and their amazing brains with a plan and a purpose, and He wants to help them use their thoughts and brains for good;
God has given them power over their thoughts; and
even if they’ve been stuck in a swirl of anxious, scary thoughts, they don’t have to stay there!

With whimsical illustrations from Nadia Gunawan and a beautifully decorated cover, this picture book addresses one of the most foundational skills for a happy, healthy life. Surround your children with your love and with tools to combat anxiety and negative thinking.

You Quack Me Up for International Joke Day

Did you know today is International Joke Day? Comet insisted on celebrating International Joke Day by sharing 800 Animal Jokes For Kids : You Quack Me Up published by Tommy Nelson.

  
This is the cutest book for kids ages 5-11. My 13 year old and I laughed at many of the jokes together.  he book is filled with knock-knock jokes, riddles, limericks, and tongue twisters. There is also a section on how to write jokes. The layout is nice and easy to read.

I have found that kids love jokes and joke books are a great way to encourage reluctant readers and writers.   It would be fun to take turn reading them aloud to each other.  Kids love to write their own jokes and read them to you! This is a great way to encourage kids reading, writing, and share some smiles.  

So to end with a joke. . . .

How do beavers surf the web?  ...........     They just log on!  

Happy International Joke Day!  

You Quack Me Up